Outline –
Week 1 – Discovering Self-Compassion – in this session we dive deeper into self-compassion – what it is and isn’t, the benefits, the research, misgivings, physiology of self-compassion and self-criticism as well as way to start cultivating self-compassion in to your life. I wonder if there is a difference between how you treat yourself in comparison to how you treat a friend?
Week 2 – Practising Mindfulness – this session, we bring another element of self-compassion in – mindfulness. We discuss resistance and how we can create unnecessary suffering, discovering the wandering mind, understanding backdraft as well as a variety of ways to practise mindfulness in daily life.
Week 3 – Discovering and Practising Living-Kindness – this session focuses on understanding the difference between loving kindness and compassion as well as how to evoke a felt sense of loving-kindness and compassion and how to use loving-kindness to a moment-to-moment experience.
Week 4 – Discovering Your Compassionate Voice – in this session we start to bring loving-kindness in to formal mediation, identify the stages of progress to self-compassion (including disillusionment) and start to begin motivating ourselves with compassion rather criticism or judgement.
Week 5 – Living Deeply – in this session we learn how to use breath meditation to cultivate compassion for self and others, how to discover core values and re-orienting to those in daily life, finding meaning in life’s challenges as well as practising compassion and self-compassion whilst listening to others.
Week 6 – Meeting Difficult Emotions – this session we evolve in to learning to meet difficult emotions by using mindfulness and self-compassion practise and understanding the meaning of shame and how self-compassion is an antidote to shame.
Week 7 – Exploring Challenging Relationships – in week 7, we explore meeting unmet needs in relationships with self-compassion as well as combining self-compassion and equanimity to manage caregiver fatigue.
Week 8 – Embracing Your Life – in the final week, we look at learning to practise savouring, gratitude and self-appreciation to correct the human negativity bias. We also take the time, to reflect on key insights and practises from the course.
What is the Benefit for me as a Coach?
After reading the above outline, I trust you can see the benefits of fostering self-compassion as a coach. For me though, as a coach I have found the more self-compassionate I am for myself and my own challenges and difficulties, the more I compassion I can give to my clients and the people in my inner circle. However – I must say this is a courageous adventure of embracing imperfection and the challenges of being truly human in today’s world. Mindfulness helped me to see situations clearly, however with the added addition of self-compassion, it helped me to articulate what I needed.
And yes it links to many of the ICF Core Competencies ☺
What’s Included –
When you attend the MSC course, you will receive the following toolkit –
- 9 Live Online Zoom Sessions,
- 7 Meditation recordings,
- 13 Informal Self-Compassion Practises,
- Articles and Research, as well as
- Access to the (Un)Learning Hub.